A lesson learned from SOLIDER OF DESTINY: SLAVERY, SECESSION, AND THE REDEMPTION OF ULYSSES S. GRANT, by John Reeves
Your personal demons and disappointments do not need to define you. Many stories have been told of how important the process of going through failure can be for learning lessons and setting people on a more successful life path. I thought about my own story as I read John Reeves’ latest biography of Ulysses Grant Soldier of Destiny , which focuses on the years from Grant’s embarrassing tenure as a California soldier in the 1850’s, to his ultimate triumphs in the American Civil War. For seven years, my goal in life was to become a full-time History instructor at the community college level, and I kept telling myself that if I stuck to it and kept working hard, I would eventually achieve my dream (all evidence that those jobs are virtually impossible for Social Science instructors to find at community colleges notwithstanding). One day, I was called into an interview for a school I had long worked at, and I drove away from it convinced I had gotten the job and had to start planni...